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      <image:caption>The type of porn someone views does not define their character. But it can, at times, illuminate the void they are trying to fill</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Both men and women carry deep shame, but society shapes how it’s experienced, expressed, and addressed.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>The difference is stark: CSBD is not one-size-fits-all. How this struggle presents is profoundly shaped by gender.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You are whole. You are worthy. You are enough—exactly as you are, right now</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Self-blame is common, with questions like “Was I not enough?” or “Did I cause this?”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>You don’t have to do this alone.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We think: What is wrong with me? Will I ever stop? If anyone knew… they’d leave me. They’d hate me. Maybe I’m just broken.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Which type of trauma could this be?</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Whether we drown in a bucket or in the sea, we suffer equal consequences.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Unprocessed trauma can affect our everyday lives.</image:caption>
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